valentines day relationship alert is on. hahahaha.
here’s the situation. any thoughts are welcome.
i met this guy on new years eve. we started talking and hit it off; i found it strange that i could tell him practically my whole life and he didn’t really see it as a big deal. he basically knows a lot more about me than most, and i dont know if it was so easy to tell him because he graduated with a degree in psychology or i’m just that comfortable.
i’d like to think its the latter.
anyways, we started hanging out. for about a week, we hung out every single night. we both ended up getting WAY behind in work, and decided it would be best to hang out a little bit less.
i haven’t seen the kid in about a week and a half and its killing me; especially since he lives just a few streets down. he mentioned nothing about valentines day or any kind of date. i know that he’s busy with work, but there hasnt really been any effort…
i’m having a hard time with this one. he’s never been in a ‘real’ relationship so i dont want to clobber him and scare him away, but at the same time i feel like i’m just freakin sitting here waiting for nothing to happen. he’s also very introverted and extremely logical (we’ve already discussed personality types), so he’s not so sensitive to the emotions of others and would rather stay in (and study..) than spend time with friends.
so far, i’ve told him everything. that i’m scared he’s going to walk away, that all of a sudden the butterflies kicked in…do i tell him that i feel like i’m waiting around for nothing? i dont know what to do.